I have experienced something like this at Ruby shops before. My girlfriend keeps getting mistreated at her job where she works as a Scrum Master. Some devs on her team miss her meetings and ignore her deadlines, and then instead of apologizing for their bad work ethic, they lie and bully my girlfriend by pretending they’re the “victims” and she’s the “oppressor”, which makes zero sense given that she’s like the nicest person and incapable of being mean towards anyone. https://andymaleh.blogspot.com/2025/09/discrimination-experienced-at-tech.html